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Recovering From Infidelity in Marriage

Posted by on Nov 29, 2016 in Infidelity Help | 0 comments

tips for recovering from infidelity in your marriageRecovering from infidelity in marriage can be an extremely tough thing to do. It’s a very difficult thing to find out that your trusted partner decided to do something so distasteful. After finding something out of this magnitude, you may have become sad, upset, and frustrated (to say the least) at your partner for doing something so shocking to you.

As you may or may not have seen it coming, there are actual reasons behind why your partner chose to do this. I know you may be feeling like no matter what reason they have, it doesn’t justify the action. But the thing is, when we as humans step forth and listen to the motives behind others, we gain an understanding of the person and why they did it. Their motive would make the action ‘justified’ in their head, which is why they moved forward with that decision. But really understanding their perspective can really get you to be on the same page as them and that can be a very good thing. When it comes to recovering from infidelity in marriage, this is the first step.

Knowing there is a way out of this terrible situation is a start. The way out consists of you accepting that they made the decision for a reason, and you accepting that they saw that as a valid reason to initiate action behind their decision. You must also understand that this pain you’re feeling is only temporary, and you reading this only shows you’re already on your way through the process of obliterating this pain.

Now, acknowledge yourself for coming this far. Acknowledge the fact that you arrived here and are looking to resolve this issue because you care. You want to learn how to fix this problem once and for all, and you will. Giving up on a marriage that you spent so much of your time on may not be the wisest choice depending on the situation. But only you can determine that.

The fact of the matter is that you ultimately have a choice, to either stay and resolve this to become happy again, or to leave and fix yourself from within to become happy again. What many people don’t know is that they CAN resolve this issue with their spouse and they CAN both be happy together again. It just takes dedication on your part to see it through and to allow for the proper process to take place.

Fully overcoming infidelity in your marriage is a lot more likely when you have the proper guidance. Going with your natural instincts won’t be the best answer.  You need to be able to understand the entire situation on a very deep level. Doing this will allow you to find it within yourself to forgive your spouse. And only after truly forgiving your spouse, will the relationship start to get back on track as if it never happened. It will take some time, but the sooner you get to the point where you forgive them, the sooner you’ll arrive at the point where the relationship is back to normal, or even better!

Of course, if forgiving and working it out is not something you have any desire to do, then you know what you need to do.  Just know that it will not erase the pain, and that working through it to understand why or how it happened would still be a good idea.

Throughout the years we’ve seen many couples recover from infidelity. It is never easy, but with the help of a well-known resource call Break Free From the Affair, it is very attainable.  All of the information pertaining to “how” is in this E-book, where you are given a step-by-step process to help you overcome infidelity in your marriage.

break free from the affair e bookIt is a thorough guide that will help bring you from the phase where you found out about this unfortunate situation, to where you’re totally free from it again. Imagine being able to live with your spouse without even thinking about the infidelity ever again. This is the point where you become totally free.

Thank you for taking the time to read this post, I truly hope that it has helped you in some way.  Feel free to contact me any time if you need advice or have any questions.  I have lived through it, and came out better off on the other side, and you can too.

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Tips for Overcoming Infidelity

Posted by on Nov 17, 2016 in Infidelity Help | 0 comments

overcoming infidelityOvercoming infidelity can be a tough thing to do, as it’s not something we’d expect to happen to us. One of the most devastating things that can happen to us is when our life partner is unfaithful in the relationship. Though, the world doesn’t end here.

Just because you may be going through stages of grief doesn’t mean there isn’t a solution to the problem. You just need to know the first step of the process, which is deciding whether you want to repair the relationship, or learn how to move on. Let’s talk about the latter.

Learning how to move on from this point takes effort, but with the right knowledge, you’ll make it through much faster and easier. We need to look at what actually happened. What exactly was the situation? Begin to really try to understand the situation from your spouses perspective. Know that the reasons they may think they cheated on you are likely different from what actually is true. Maybe something happened in their life at a much younger age that ties together with their infidelity? Maybe someone in their family or past relationship was unfaithful to them? There could be a million different things that tie into why they made that ‘stupid’ decision. But just know that it wasn’t ‘stupid’ to them at a subconscious level for a REASON.

Now I know this may be a very hard thing to do, but it does need to be done in order to move forward productively. No more pondering on the negatives!

Now I know you may have heard that there are many other fish in the sea, but it doesn’t help to just merely know that. What needs to happen is the true acceptance within yourself that you’re making the right decision to move on.

You need to be in total compliance with your inner self at the deepest level that moving on is literally the best thing to do. After doing this, you will be more open-minded to other opportunities, like the other fish in the sea. You’ll also be more aware of the possibility of potential opportunity, which will open up so many doors for you that you may not have seen otherwise! This may ease onto you or it may hit you like magic, but only after you KNOW with all your heart that moving forward in life is the obvious option for you to take to get out of this funk.

This part is challenging, it indeed takes some time to be able to wrap your head around this idea of understanding there are millions of possibilities why your spouse did what they did. Coming from a perspective of true understanding of this logic will get you to the point where choosing the option to move forward in life is the only obvious solution to the problem.

Once you get there, things start to become very colorful in life. You will begin to see a plethora of opportunities popping out everywhere around you.  This is because you will naturally release a large dose of chemicals in your brain which will allow you to see life clearly.

By continuing to strive forward from this major shift in your life, you can make this ‘clear-mindedness’ last forever. You have this to look forward to as a light at the end of this tunnel.

We have a guide that can bring you through this process in it’s entirety. I’ve witnessed many people fully overcome infidelity with just this one book, “Break Free From the Affair”. Together, we can make coping easier, and get you to a fully restored version of yourself. Overcoming infidelity is something that many people don’t know is even possible to accomplish. With this book, you will receive guidance, and step by step instructions on to how you can conquer this problem by resolving it within yourself.

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